Monday, May 24, 2010

听。。

听下别人说是不会死,人家好声好气说,请别用那么极端的态度对待好吗? 当人说你的时候,难道就不会问问为什么吗。活着就该学会接受人家的批评。不管是好是坏也得接受。这就是你为什么到现在都不会改变。至少在我眼中,我看不到。你知道为什么在我眼中阿乐和琳的改变最大吗?阿乐从以前的不成熟都成长了。虽然有时的任性也不是什么。。至少有成长。虽然琳很会算,至少她学会了什么时就候该算,什么时候不该算。批评就是让自己进步的方法,接受不了批评,就永远不会进步。我们要面对的事情都不一样。但是大家都在学习着。要不是当你是朋友,我会懒得开因口。这也只是你让我觉得这样。那你有没有想过,你为什么会让我觉得这样?

很多的解释都是从为什么开始。一直逃避,是改变不了什么。
不是叫你改变自己,只是以朋友的立场希望你能过得更好。

人最痛恨的是被人说中心事。最可悲的是不了解在其他人眼中的自己。。

9 comments:

5iAnG27 said...

我也不觉得我了解别人眼中的自己。。

qin said...

i am not coming here to fight. and i never thought those few words in the threat would end up like that. i have no clue what did i do or write wrongly in the threat. and, what did i do or say wrongly to u in the past? when did this thing even get started? enlighten me, please.

teddy bear said...

end up like wat? It doesn't matter to me, n u dun even know wat u r sorry for. Then y r u saying for. Pls when u r sayin sorry, b sure of wat u r sorry for. It's the matter of self senses. Things just not tat complicated. When involving ur attitude,things just getting complicated. U and xing nv stop quarelling,u knw exactly wats the pro.but it still nv end. Do u ever think of y? Things just can't kept repeating n repeating. Ppl was having outing but attitude u r giving sometimes just not acceptable. Pls la.

teddy bear said...

i can b very patient as well as furious. Pls dun too lower Self senses.i hate ppl who can't turn over to think. I won't mind if u kept complaining bout anytg, at least at the same time improve urself with watever thg frm watever aspect i dun care. At least trying smtg. As i was saying, just thgs i can't stand with my eyes closed.

qin said...

alright...seemed like u already had this thing mixed up with the past.
i admit that i had some attitude problem in the past, but this thing, what i said in the threat, did i say anything wrong too? if i really did, i'm really sorry about that, sincerely.
about xing, we have stopped fighting each other for quite a while already. i think i've already found a way to talk to her peacefully.
that's all i wanna say.

teddy bear said...

it's not about mixing up the past o present o watever....=_=...it's the thing to b seen....

teddy bear said...

你不觉得, 就自己去了解阿。。。笨。。。

qin said...

it was not supposed to mean that way. i don't know... different people got different perspectives and ways of interpreting words. whatever... i got nothing to say anymore. my wrong to leave comments in that threat.

5iAnG27 said...

那么激烈-.-我还是觉得和气生财^^